Do you have a girl that you like and don’t know how to go
about making her like you? Or are you a shy guy that finds it difficult to
approach a lady you like?
The truth is that it is natural for a man to be shy and be
filled with fear of rejection when meeting a lady he likes for the first time. With
this tips I put together below you make any lady like you naturally, without the
need to stress yourself unnecessarily.
1. Take care of yourself and dress well. Before you can get
good attraction from any lady, you must speak her language in terms of fashion
and social lifestyle. Your taste must march hers. You must be socially
compatible to her. If you are not compatible to each other she may have little
or no attraction for you.
2. Take interest in her. Give her some of your time and
energy but don’t over do it. Giver your time and resources by showing interest
in what she does. Show genuine interest in her problems and help her find solutions
to her problems when one is badly needed by her. Be there for her, be
supportive when necessary. Whenever she calls for genuine help from you be
there for her. Do not hesitate.
3. Encourage her to talk about herself when you are together
and listen with rapt attention to everything she says. Ladies like and easily
fall in love with men who want to know more about, men that encourage them to
talk about themselves. They see such men as someone who care about their
welfare and will not dominate them i.e. someone who will be romantic enough and
care about their opinions and how they feel. Encouraging any lady to tell you
one or two things about herself or any other things about her that will be of
interest to her will make you a great personality in her mind.
4. Be fun to be with. Ladies want fun and will like to
associate with people who can give them plenty of fun in their lives. They want
to be around humorous men, men who are happy and can also make them happy. Men
that always have smiles on their faces no matter what they are going through.
They see these kinds of men as secured men who know what they do and where they
want to be in life. They see them as well focused and stress adjusted. They see
them as men who know how to manage their life affairs well.
6. Make the lady feel important about herself by
appreciating what she does, say, buy or have. Whatever you see that she
cherish, praise her for it. We all want some appreciation for what we do, we
all want to be recognized and praised for what we think we do well including
our decisions and opinions. Ladies like you and I, like anyone who appreciates
us and respect our opinions. When you praise and appreciate her genuinely for what
she has done that you like, that lady will like you for it.
7. Always put her interest before yours. If you want a lady
to like you always put her interests and desires first before your own. That
will proof to her that you are gentleman who is not a selfish, such lady will
see you as someone who have respect for her. So if you want a lady to like you
always put her interest before yours.
8. Give her a gift when the occasion demands for it.
Surprise that lady with a gift she would like and appreciate. Giving her gifts
when the time and occasion demands for it will go a long way in soften any
ladies’ heart towards you.
Women want themselves to be catered for, women love to be
cherished, pampered, and cared for. Women want their men to put on a pedestal,
a high place in their mind and you can proof to her how much you like her by giving
a special gift when the opportunity presents itself e.g. during her birthday,
Xmas, New Year or Easter gift.. For instance, you can make gift presentation
such as her paintings or her sculptural feature, buy her shoes, jewelry etc to
her.
In the alternative you also think of what you know she is
dreaming of having and get it for her. Whatever it is, be care about what you
do so that you don’t look like someone who is entice her with money and gifts.
This will only make you look like the nice guy who gets nothing for his effort
at the end of it all and I know you don’t want to end up being a nice but her
lover.
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