Have you ever been snubbed by a lady in public? Did you ever
see a lady you like so much in a public place and did not know how to approach
or start a conservation with her? Then this article will teach you one or two
things you will need to do right any time you see a lady you like in public and
you will get good response from her.
It is really
embarrassing to be snubbed in public by a lady but whenever you are in a public
places like bank, in a bus, at a post office etc and you see a lady that you
like try any of the following tips to pick up a good conversation with her.
1. Ask her to lend you something you know she has e.g. a
pen, a magazine, a novel etc. If she gives you, use it and return it to her,
but when returning it to her, make sure you give her a compliment. If she is
receptive introduce yourself by telling her your name and ask after her own. If
she tells you her name, think of a topic for discussion that will be of
interest to her e.g. the bank’s service, bus service, post office’s service
etc, anything she would have something to say about.
From your interactions with her she will be more relaxed and
receptive to you as a person. Take that opportunity to ask for what she does,
her place of work or school, her phone number and address depending on her
responses.
2. Use eye contact to register your presence in her mind.
Using eye contact to flirt with lady is one good way to register yourself in a
woman’s mind positively. This is done by making eye contact with her and look
away. Make eye contact with her and look away again. Do this for three or four
times. Look at her eyes again and let her meet your eyes herself. After that,
make a move toward her and ask her to lend you something you know she has and
continue as for one.
This approach is good if you don’t have the courage to start
with the first tip above. Please, know that an interval of about 3 or 4 minutes
is needed before the next eye contact movement is made.
3. If it is a club house or restaurant, ask her if you can
join her table. She may be sitting with her friends, don’t worry, ask for their
permission to join their table, if you are, welcomed to the table offer to buy
her a drink or pay for the ones that she has bought before you join her table.
Note that if she is in company of her friends you must buy drinks for them too.
Then start a good conversation with her.
Think of a good topic to discuss with her, something that
will be of interest to her such as the table setting, the club services, women
fashion trend and other burning life issues that you know women love to talk
about, anything that will be of interest to her. Then continue as in one above.
4. Tell her you know her somewhere, tell her, her face looks
familiar to you. This approach is useful when you meet a lady in a social place
and you do not know of any other way you can approach her. If she says she is
not the one tell how much she looks like the person.
Link that subject to another subject of discussion based on
that subject of introduction then move to any other ones you think is going to
be interesting to her and wait for the right time to introduce yourself to her
by telling her your name, and then ask after her name. Continue as in one
above.
5. Help her in one way or the other. This is one of the best
way to link up with a lady easily. This is one best way to approach a lady I
can always recommend to anybody. If you meet a lady in a bus pay for her fare
i.e. if you can, that will put you in a good position before her, help her pick
something that falls from her hand, help her carry something she wants to
carry.
All these will make her become receptive of your moves and
advances. Women easily like anyone who helps them, no matter how much they
pretend.
6. If none of those opportunities above never present themselve,
ask somebody that knows her introduce you to her. This is another good way to
successfully link up with a lady.
If you use any of those approaches above as directed, the
chances are very much that any woman you approach will be receptive of your
advances. Whatever the approach you use, do not forget to ask after her number.
If she gives you her name, address and phone number, you must know that the
ball is now in your court, it is all left to you to play it well by linking up
with her later and start a lasting relationship with her.
If you try any of the tricks above and she is not giving you
good response, it is either that your appearance is not compatible with her own
i.e. your appearance does not appeal to her or she is already in a serious
relationship that she doesn’t want anything to rock it is boat. Try your luck
elsewhere.
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